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PLEASE ANSWER AND PLEASE DON'T JUDGE?

PLEASE ANSWER AND PLEASE DON'T JUDGE? Topic: How to write a letter in english uk
June 16, 2019 / By Reilly
Question: Ok so I recently haad an affair with a married man. I am also married. He heas cheated on his wife before 15 years ago. Long story short - she found out via an old sms and we have decided not to stay in contact. He did however write me a letter after everything ended and said that he will love me forever and that his wife doesn't love him anymore and he doesn't think that will change. This was 3 weeks ago. Our relationship was only for 4 months. We really fell in love and had a very emotional relationship without sleeping together. He had 2 small children, I have none. The problem is, my husband has forgiven me and taken me back. I don't know what is going on in their home but I have just heard that she was away to England for a week. You see, they are married by English Law and now live in South Africa. Also, when I went out of my office this afternoon a woman walked passed me and looked right at me and I knew then it was her. This was confirmed by another collegue in our office who saw everything. Why did she want to see me? She did not confront me. She is 42, he is 42 and I am only 29. Do you think she just wanted to see what I look like? And what was she doing overseas? If you want to get divorced if you were married by UK law do you have to have to actually go through the proceedings in the UK or could you get in done in South Africa where they now live? Do you think she just wanted to clear her head or what do you think she was doing in England. She has no family there, all her family now live in SA. Sorry for all the questions, but I am a little confused especially after this morning when I got an sms from him to ask how I was - this after 3 weeks.
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Mignon Mignon | 3 days ago
Why do you keep asking this same question? If you don't get the answers you want to hear, move on. Most people are not around here to sweet talk others. They will tell you what they think.
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Mignon Originally Answered: PLEASE ANSWER AND PLEASE DON'T JUDGE?
Why do you keep asking this same question? If you don't get the answers you want to hear, move on. Most people are not around here to sweet talk others. They will tell you what they think.

Lexine Lexine
Here is a novel idea. Stay the hell out of each others beds, sms, and lives. YOUR MARRIED! SO IS HE! Spend a minute working on that and low and behold...wow! If you put half the "Emotional" energy into being fun, sweet, sexy and curious with your husband and he with his wife you would have 4 Happy people instead of two selfish ones and 2 ruined ones. I'm not judging. I'm just saying. Grow Up!
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Julia Julia
she probably wanted to see what you looked like is my guess because after my husband cheated on me and yes i took him back also i was dying to see what the other woman looked like, but i didn't choose to because i really don't know what i would've done to her if i saw her face to face because she knew the whole time that we where married. to get the divorce it has to be filed with an office in the uk i believe but can be done in SA their marriage is probably ending so he needs someone to lean on like a rebound type think long and hard before you do anything though if you decided to to have any contact at all and he still contacted you ignore it especially if you want to work it out with your husband
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Gladys Gladys
One thing that stands out for me: If she didn't love him as he said, why would she go through all the trouble to go and see what you look like? Seems that this is the classic case of: "My wife doesn't understand me, my wife doesn't love or respect me" just to get into your pants. WAKE UP SISTER - He's only using you. Edit - If I was your husband, I would never take you back. You don't seem to have any remorse for what you did to him. Then again, maybe you deserve to be used.
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Dervila Dervila
Oh goodness, move on with your life! You have a husband that obviously loves you enough to forgive you. What else are you looking for? This man loves his wife that much, and she loves him enough to forgive him. What you had wasn't love. I'm sorry. Put your energy into your marriage.
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Dervila Originally Answered: Judge/Law/Help Please.?
Dear Sir, the next time I receive a summons, or any other notification of a court appearance requiring my attendance, may I give the court my assurance that I will not ignore such a summons, but I will appear. Further more, may I also give my assurance that I will not waste the courts time with my protestations of not receiving such notifications. Then you can go on a state your case. Hopefully the court will answer you. If they receive your letter that is.

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