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Problem with in laws?

Problem with in laws? Topic: We must do our homework for kids
June 16, 2019 / By Phoenix
Question: First sorry for any typos typing this on my phone I never had any problem with my inlaws, we see them once a month and everything been great for 6+ years, abut 2 weeks ago my husband had to have emergrany surgery and it was 5k well they helped us the the surgery and paid 2k, my dad paid 1k and we paid other 2k. Well since then his parent started coming over like every other day, then a few days ago brought over alot of new clothing saying they didnt like the way we dressed so bought us new clothing, I dress business everyday for my job. Then she comes over while i am at work and cleans my already clean house saying she does a better job then me, my husband was home due to his surgery. my father in law yelling all the time and saying he gave my husband life so he owns my husband and he will take care of his things. They are asking ALOT of questions about our finances and bill, we offered 4-5 times to pay them back 2k and they say they dont want it, and wanted to help us. also trying to tell me how to parent my kids and homework and such. my husband hates this as much as i do but he in same boat as me doesnt know how to handle this without causing problems, we do love our family and dont want problems but they really do need to back off How do we handle this without causing alot of problems?
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Maryanne Maryanne | 2 days ago
NEVER take money from family. what you do is make sure you get that money back to them! Get a cashier check for the total amount Mail it to them with a return receipt (tracking #) to make sure they get it in the mail. Now your clear. Do not take it back tell them you are now fair and square with this. Start setting up boundaries on this with regards to them poppin' in and being noisy. Talk with your husband about it and make sure your both on the same page. He must not tell them anything about your personal info, marriage whatever this keeps them out of the loop. This sort of thing can cause divorce. So wise up.
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Maryanne Originally Answered: Problem with in laws?
NEVER take money from family. what you do is make sure you get that money back to them! Get a cashier check for the total amount Mail it to them with a return receipt (tracking #) to make sure they get it in the mail. Now your clear. Do not take it back tell them you are now fair and square with this. Start setting up boundaries on this with regards to them poppin' in and being noisy. Talk with your husband about it and make sure your both on the same page. He must not tell them anything about your personal info, marriage whatever this keeps them out of the loop. This sort of thing can cause divorce. So wise up.

Lally Lally
You learned a very important lesson. Don't borrow money from family. To stop this you and your husband must stand together and reset the rules. It is not going to go well, but will eventually get back to the way it was. good luck!
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Jenny Jenny
Are they just coming over more while your husband is recovering? If so, consider a temporary nuisance. If they ask questions you feel are personal then change the subject...I would.
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Flicka Flicka
They know that you are not going to tell them to stop so they push forward. Do not worry about causing problems. Tell them this needs to stop and now. Do not make apologies and do not back down.
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Flicka Originally Answered: What are the tattoo laws?
Besides being way too young and the fact that you will DEFENETLY regret it,(i'm sure you won't listen to this) you still have ALOT of grownig to do. If you get a tattoo now, it will be all stretched and mangled by the time you're 25! Not to mention, a lot of tattoo shops won't work on someone that young with or without a parent. just wait a few years, dude. trust me!!

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